My parents always always told me to dress nice. You never know when you’re going to meet your next boss or when you’ll need to make an impression. I think that core belief helped me establish my values on how I dress and adorn myself. I’m a humble person, so I wear simple clothes. Polo shirts, khaki pants or jeans are about as wild as I get. Earrings or piercings? Nah… My parents hate them on guys. I personally don’t mind them; I think a lot of guys can pull off the look these days because it says a lot about their character. For myself, on the other hand though, I’ll pass. I have a very utilitarian personality, so if the article of clothing or jewelry does not serve a purpose I’m not inclined to wear it. Don’t get me wrong, I feel I am just as unique as the next guy, but I express it other ways than jewelry or clothing.
I didn’t always dress nice though, I went from Lacoste shirts as a youngster to wearing baggy shorts and big t-shirts as an early teenager. I’m pretty sure my values changed during that time period, as I was more concerned with what people thought of me and how well they would accept me if I mirrored the image they made themselves. I think it was a bad thing because my values became so clouded I had no idea who I was. Of course, as I made my way through high school and witnessed the divergence of lifestyles once again I started to find my own beliefs and values.
I come from a very conservative family and I believe that is where I feel my values began to emerge. My dad wears a suit and tie to work every day, reflecting his values of image and professionalism. It definitely has made an impression on me.
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